Monthly Archives: September 2012

Take my pain with you and leave my heart behind

因为怕痛,因为害怕身边的人更痛,我很快地就不去想,不去碰。拼命地告诉全世界我没有在受伤。连想,都不敢去想。 And now, the scabs have formed and it itches. I’m scratching all around the wound and I almost can’t remember how much it hurt when I fell. Was it that much fun, was it worth the pain? I know … Continue reading

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鹊桥

I was telling a 10 year old boy today the story of the Cowherd and the Weaving Maid. He liked Romeo and Juliet better, because “it has a more tragic ending”. We don’t know if the cowherd killed his cow … Continue reading

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Forgive yourself, so you can forgive others.

My mom regularly meets her sisters or talks on the phone with them. Our generation of children in Singapore doesn’t enjoy the fortune of being around so many siblings anymore. I do wonder whom I’ll call and have tea with … Continue reading

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Live your dreams, and let your children live theirs.

When I was 16, I wanted a child. I wanted my child to grow up gay, so that I could give it all the love it deserved, and more. I would be that mother who would embrace my child’s difference. … Continue reading

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Do Endodontists Get Off on Surgeries?

So I’m about to be $x poorer. The weird thing is, I don’t even have that budget yet, but the good thing is, the universe always provides. At the end of the month when payment is due the money will … Continue reading

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